Letter Submissions


dear Gerald: Call for Letter Submissions

Are you estranged from your father? Was he absent from your life, even if he was “there”? Are you fatherless? Or never knew him? Have you ever thought about writing a letter to him? I’m asking people to submit letters addressed to their fathers or patriarchal authority figures, and in exchange, I will give you a copy of dear Gerald, a collection of 33 epistolary poems.

Books will be given away, free of charge, on a first-come, first-served basis. I have 100 copies of the book to give away, and 33 (or more) letters will be selected as inspiration for a later collection. Possible ways I may use participants’ letters: mash-ups, where I combine the letter with other texts to make one poem; erasures, where I remove text, while leaving behind particular words to reveal the poem within; or a direct response to the letter, as if I am the father.

I’ve been working on the dear Gerald collection for two years, starting when my mother asked if I wanted to write my father in Guyana—I haven’t seen him since I was three years old. A grant from the Center for Cultural Innovation will fund the publication of the book, as well as trip to South America, where I will give him a copy of the collection.


Many folks have stories and unresolved pain associated with fatherlessness. This gave me the idea to invite people to write letters to the fathers they do not know, who left them, who have not taken part in their lives.

There is always that suspicion you are alone. You are the only one who didn’t grow up with a father, and the shame of it consumes, even in small and unconscious ways. To share this work with the community is to push this conversation forward, to lessen the stigma of being a bastard, abandoned, forgotten, or never considered by one’s father, and to individually and collectively evolve into healing action. dear Gerald brings attention to the difficult bridges we must cross to get to a deeper understanding of who we are.

GUIDELINES: Letters written to your father, or a patriarchal authority figure, can be creative, lyrical/musical, or visual—it’s open to your interpretation. There is no word limit, but if you need one, letters cannot exceed 5 pages.  I ask that you formally begin the letter with “dear,” followed by your father’s name, and end the letter with a closing (i.e. Truly, Arisa).






2 thoughts on “Letter Submissions

  1. I am a lesbian, now aging. My daughter grew up fatherless, hers deported to England after his three years of incarceration. Our journey together has been enormous but suddenly, on the internet and Facebook, there he is, bringing turmoil and joy in equal measure. Thank you. And thanks to this magazine! This brought tears and inspiration. Nyla

  2. Thank you, Nyla, for sharing bits of your story with me. I hope you or your daughter will consider submitting a letter. Best,

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